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Pat Allen Book Recommendations

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#TitleAuthor
1The 48 Laws of PowerRobert Greene
27 Habits of Highly Effective PeopleStephen. R. Covey
3A New Pair of GlassesChuck “C” (Chamberlain)
4A taste for pain: On masochism and female sexualityMaria Marcus
5Adam’s Curse: A Future without MenBryan Sykes
6Advice to a Young Wife from an Old MistressMichael Drury
7The Albert Ellis Reader: A Guide to Well-Being Using Rational Emotive Behavior TherapyShawn Blau, Albert Ellis
8Archetypes, A Natural History of the SelfDr. Anyhony Stevens
9The Art of LovingErich Fromm
10As Nature Made Him: The Boy Who Was Raised as a GirlJohn Colapinto
11Awareness Through Movement: Easy-to-Do Health Exercises to Improve Your Posture, Vision, Imagination, and Personal AwarenessMoshe Feldenkrais
12The Betrayal of the BodyAlexander Lowen
13Behave: The Biology of Humans at Our Best and WorstRobert M. Sapolsky
14The Better Brain Book: The Best Tool for Improving Memory and Sharpness and Preventing Aging of the BrainDavid Perlmutter, Carol Colman
15Beyond Games and ScriptsEric. Berne
16Big You, Little YouGrace Kirsten, Richard Robertiello
17The Biology of LoveArthur Janov
18The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of TraumaBessel van der Kolk MD
19The Brain That Changes Itself: Stories of Personal Triumph from the Frontiers of Brain ScienceNorman Doidge M.D.
20The Brain’s Way of Healing: Remarkable Discoveries and Recoveries from the Frontiers of NeuroplasticityNorman Doidge M.D.
21Brainstorm: The Power and Purpose of the Teenage BrainDaniel J. Siegel MD
22The Chalice and the Blade: Our History, Our FutureRiane Eisler
23Change Your Words, Change Your Life: Understanding the Power of Every Word You SpeakJoyce Meyer
24Children: The Challenge: The Classic Work on Improving Parent-Child Relations–Int​elligent, Humane & Emine​ntly Practical (Plume)Rudolf Dreikurs, Vicki Stolz
25Cinderella and Her Sisters: The Envied and the EnvyingAnn Belford Ulanov, Barry Ulanov
26Codependent No More: How to Stop Controlling Others and Start Caring for YourselfMelody Beattie
27Cognitive Therapy and the Emotional Disorders (Meridian)Aaron T. Beck
28The Craving Brain: A bold new approach to breaking free from *drug addiction *overeating *alcoholism *gamblingRonald A. Ruden
29Cult of the Black VirginEan Begg
30The Dangerous Passion: Why Jealousy Is as Necessary as Love and SexDavid M. Buss Ph.D.
31DreamsJohn A. Sanford
32Dirty Words: Psychoanalytic InsightsAriel C. Arango
33Drive Yourself Sane: Using the Uncommon Sense of General Semantics. Third Edition.Susan PresKodish, Bruce I. Kodish
34Drunks, Drugs & Debits: how to Recognize Addicts and Avoid Financial AbuseDoug Thorburn
35Enough About You, Let’s Talk About Me: How to Recognize and Manage the Narcissists in Your LifeLes Carter
36Evil: The Shadow Side of RealityJohn A. Sanford
37The Evolution Of Desire: Strategies Of Human MatingDavid M. Buss
38Fat Is a Feminist IssueSusie Orbach
39Fathers and Daughters: A Father’s Powerful Influence in Women’s LivesWilliam S. Appleton
40Foods That HealDr. Bernard Jensen
41For Your Own Good: Hidden Cruelty in Child-Rearing and the Roots of ViolenceAlice Miller, Hildegarde Hannum, Hunter Hannum
42From the First Bite: A Complete Guide to Recovery from Food AddictionKay Sheppard
43Games People Play: The Basic Handbook of Transactional AnalysisEric Berne
44Getting Past Your Past: Take Control of Your Life with Self-Help Techniques from EMDR TherapyFraincine Shapiro
45Getting Well Again: The Bestselling Classic About the Simontons’ Revolutionary Lifesaving Self- Awareness TechniquesO. Carl Simonton M.D., James Creighton Ph.D., Stephanie Matthews Simonton
46He: Understanding Masculine Psychology (Perennial Library)Robert A. Johnson
47The Highly Sensitive PersonElaine N. Aron Ph.D.
48His Brain, Her Brain: How Divinely Designed Differences Can Strengthen Your MarriageWalt and Barb Larimore, Shaunti Feldhahn
49I Deserve LoveSondra Ray
50I’m OK–You’re OKThomas Harris
51The Indigo Children: The New Kids Have ArrivedLee Carroll
52Inner Work: Using Dreams and Active Imagination for Personal GrowthRobert A. Johnson
53Intuition and Ego States: The Origins of Transactional Analysis: A Series of PapersEric. Berne, Paul McCormick
54The Invisible Partner: How the Male and Female in Each of Us Affects Our RelationshipsJohn A Sanford
55Iron John: A Book About MenRobert Bly
56It Will Never Happen to Me: Growing Up with Addiction As Youngsters, Adolescents, AdultsClaudia Black Ph.D.
57Jung on Death and ImmortalityC. G. Jung, Jenny Yates
58Knowing Woman: A Feminine PsychologyIrene de Castillejo
59Language in Thought and Action: Fifth EditionS.I. Hayakawa, Alan R. Hayakawa, Robert MacNeil
60Life Scripts: A Transactional Analysis of Unconscious Relational PatternsRichard G. Erskine
61Living with the Passive-Aggressive Man: Coping with Hidden Aggression – From the Bedroom to the BoardroomScott Wetzler
62Lovetypes: Discover Your Romantic Style And Find Your Soul MateAlexander Avila
63Man and His SymbolsC. G. Jung
64Manning Up: How the Rise of Women Has Turned Men into BoysKay S. Hymowitz
65Memories, Dreams, ReflectionsC.G. Jung, Aniela Jaffe, Clara Winston
66Mindsight: The New Science of Personal TransformationDaniel J. Siegel
67My Mother/My Self: The Daughter’s Search for IdentityNancy Friday
68The Myth of Monogamy: Fidelity and Infidelity in Animals and PeopleDavid P. Barash, Judith Eve Lipton
69Narcissism: Denial of the True SelfAlexander Lowen
70The Natural History of the Rich: A Field GuideRichard Conniff
71Nemesis: The True Story of Aristotle Onassis, Jackie O, and the Love Triangle That Brought Down the KennedysPeter Evans
72The New Approach to Discipline: Logical ConsequencesRudolf Dreikurs, Grey
73The New Primal Scream: Primal Therapy 20 Years On (Abacus Books)Dr. Arthur Janov
74Nexus: Small Worlds and the Groundbreaking Science of NetworksMark Buchanan
75Out of the Shadows: Understanding Sexual AddictionPatrick J. Carnes Ph.D.
76Parenting From the Inside OutDaniel J. Siegel MD, Mary Hartzell
77People of the Lie: The Hope for Healing Human EvilM. Scott Peck
78Personality Plus: How to Understand Others by Understanding YourselfFlorence Littauer
79The Peter Pan Syndrome: Men Who Have Never Grown UpDan Kiley
80Please Understand Me: Character and Temperament TypesDavid Keirsey, Marilyn Bates
81Please Understand Me II: Temperament, Character, IntelligenceDavid Keirsey
82The Pledge: Your Master Plan for an Abundant LifeMichael Masterson
83Prayer Can Change Your LifeDr. William R. Parker and Elaine St. Johns
84The Primal Scream : Primal Therapy : The Cure for NeurosisArthur Janov
85Psycho-Cybernet​ics, A New Way to Get More Living Out of LifeMaxwell Maltz
86Puer Aeternus: A Psychological Study of the Adult Struggle With the Paradise of ChildhoodMarie-Louise Von Franz
87The Purpose Driven LifeRick Warren
88Rebirth Into Pure Land: A True Story of Birth, Death, and TransformationMargaret Thompson, Lisa Graff, Robert M. Sachs
89The Red Book: A Reader’s Edition (Philemon)C. G. Jung, Sonu Shamdasani, John Peck (Imitation Leather)
90Rheumatoid Arthritis: The Infection Connection {Targeting and Treating the Cause of Chronic Illness}Dr Katherine M Poehlmann PhD, Dr Harold Clark PhD, Dr Joseph Mercola DO
91Satanism and Witchcraft: The Classic Study of Medieval SuperstitionJules Michelet
92Science and Sanity: An Introduction to Non-Aristoteli​an Systems and General SemanticsAlfred Korzybski
93The Scientist in the Crib: What Early Learning Tells Us About the MindAlison Gopnik, Andrew N. Meltzoff, Patricia K. Kuhl
94Scripts People Live: Transactional Analysis of Life ScriptsClaude Steiner
95The Secret Life of Pronouns: What Our Words Say About UsJames W. Pennebaker
96The Secret Life of the Unborn Child: How You Can Prepare Your Baby for a Happy, Healthy LifeThomas Verny, John Kelly
97The Secret Teachings of Mary Magdalene: Including the Lost Verses of The Gospel of Mary, Revealed and Published for the First TimeClaire Nahmad and Margaret Bailey
98Sex in the Future: The Reproductive Revolution and How it Will Change UsRobin Baker
99Sex on the Brain: 12 Lessons to Enhance Your Love LifeDaniel G. Amen M.D.
100Sex, Time, and Power: How Women’s Sexuality Shaped Human EvolutionLeonard Shlain
101She: Understanding Feminine PsychologyRobert A. Johnson
102Shelley Duvall’s Faerie Tale Theatre: The Complete CollectionStarring Shelley Duvall, Robin Williams, Christopher Reeve (DVD)
103The Sociopath Next DoorMartha Stout
104Soul Mates: Honoring the Mystery of Love and RelationshipThomas Moore
105The Spiritual Teachings of Marcus AureliusMark Forstater
106Symbol, Status, and Personalitys hayakawa
107TA Today: A New Introduction to Transactional Analysis. (Second Edition) Ian Stewart, Vann JoinesVann Joines, Ian Stewart
108Subliminal: How Your Unconscious Mind Rules Your BehaviorLeonard Mlodinow
109The Unexpected Legacy of Divorce: A 25 Year Landmark StudyJudith S. Wallerstein, Julia M. Lewis, Sandra Blakeslee
110The Use of the SelfF.M. Alexander, Wilfred Barlow
111The War Against Boys: How Misguided Policies are Harming Our Young MenChristina Hoff Sommers
112The War of Art: Break Through the Blocks and Win Your Inner Creative BattlesSteven Pressfield
113The Way of All WomenM. Esther Harding
114The Wendy Dilemma: When Women Stop Mothering Their MenDan Kiley
115The Wounded Healer: Ministry in Contemporary SocietyHenri J. M. Nouwen
116The Wounded Woman: Healing the Father-Daughte​r RelationshipLinda Schierse Leonard
117Touching: The Human Significance of the SkinAshley Montagu
118Toward a Psychology of BeingAbraham H. Maslow
119Toxic Parents: Overcoming Their Hurtful Legacy and Reclaiming Your LifeSusan Forward, Craig Buck
120Transactional Analysis in Psychotherapy: A Systematic Individual and Social PsychiatryEric Berne
121Type Talk at Work (Revised): How the 16 Personality Types Determine Your Success on the JobOtto Kroeger, Janet M. Thuesen, Hile Rutledge
122We: Understanding the Psychology of Romantic LoveRobert A. Johnson
123What do you say after you say hello?: The psychology of human destinyEric Berne
124What Were You Thinking??: $600-Per-Hour Legal Advice on Relationships, Marriage & Div​orceMark A Barondess
125What You Think of Me is None of My BusinessT. Cole-Whittaker
126When the Body Says No: Exploring the Stress-Disease ConnectionGabor Mate
127Why Am I Afraid to Tell You Who I Am? Insights into Personal GrowthJohn Powell
128Why Him? Why Her?: How to Find and Keep Lasting LoveHelen Fisher
129Why Men Don’t Have a Clue and Women Always Need More Shoes: The Ultimate Guide to the Opposite SexBarbara Pease, Allan Pease
130Why Men Don’t Listen and Women Can’t Read Maps: How We’re Different and What to Do About ItAllan Pease, Barbara Pease
131Why We Love: The Nature and Chemistry of Romantic LoveHelen Fisher
132Why Zebras Don’t Get Ulcers, Third EditionRobert M. Sapolsky
133Will I Ever Be Good Enough?: Healing the Daughters of Narcissistic MothersDr. Karyl McBride, PhD
134Winning through Intimidation: How to Be the Victor, Not the Victim, in Business and in LifeRobert Ringer
135The Wisdom of Psychopaths: What Saints, Spies, and Serial Killers Can Teach Us About SuccessKevin Dutton
136Women Who Love Psychopaths: Inside the Relationships of inevitable Harm With Psychopaths, Sociopaths & NarcissistsSandra L. Brown
137Yin and Yang of LifeJoseph K. Kim, David S. Lee, Naomi Gelperin Richman

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