Dr. Pat Allen & Don Schmincke's new book reveals the Science
Behind What Men Really Think About Sex and Dating!

WARNING: This book will invade your comfort-zone. It was rejected by three top literary agents and dozens of publishers for being too controversial, edgy, or conflicting with current socially accepted norms. The male author originally had to adopt a pseudonym for self-protection from threats from enraged females. But the material is based on over 300 of the latest scientific research studies on how our species mates.

• Why Denial Dooms Dating
• Why He Misinterprets Your Sexual Advances
• How To Be the Unfamiliar Female
• Where's a Guy's Real Sex Organ?
• Captivate Him with Darwin's 5-Step
• How To Avoid Being Seduced!
• A Scientific Definition of "Love"

If you're a woman, you may wind up throwing this book across the room in disbelief; yet it has delighted every male who's read it. Most have declared it the most factual book on male-female relationships ever written. And it espouses basic principles that, when applied, both genders found superior in producing successful and lasting relationships.

If you want to learn The Truth About Men, be warned it'll probably tick you off at first...but it will definitely set you free. (Plan to read this book with a guy nearby just so you can keep asking, "Is that how you think?")

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"The Secret" Revealed the Power of the Law of Attraction!
"What the BLEEP?" Showed the Quantum Physics of Human Perception!
Now Dr. Pat Allen Has "THE ANSWERS" to Successful Sexual Relationships!

The Answers DVD "THE ANSWERS from Dr. Pat Allen" DVD is the first-ever collection of her insights and philosophies on the Dynamics of Human Interaction, which she has learned from over 30 years of practicing couples counseling, her weekly jam-packed question-and-answer seminars, all-day workshops, and hundreds of appearances on TV and radio. In this highly charged overview Dr. Pat Allen gives you:

• The tools to reverse negative feelings immediately
• Insight into the 5 "Curses" of life, and their antidotes.
• The quintessential primer on how to Duty Date® successfully.
• The Power of Dr. Pat Allen's coveted negotiation tools
• Dr. Pat Allen's foolproof formula on how to know if you really love someone

The "secret" of life is really learning how to communicate effectively and with integrity. Dr. Pat Allen can help you prepare yourself for better love and a better life!


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Want Training Set WANT® Training for Effective Living

CD & Workbook Set. 6 sessions on individual audio CDs — or all 6 sessions in MP3 format on a single disk, perfect for your iPod. With either version you get nearly 5 1/2 hours of in-depth instruction. Dr. Pat Allen teaches you how to add powerful and lasting direction to your life and relationships by simply learning how to ask for what you want and saying no to what you don't want, using her rational, non-threatening system to communicate with integrity. Includes 28-page WORKBOOK filled with diagrams and scripts to help you achieve financial success, psychological insight, and greater potency.

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NOTE: The MP3 CD may not play on older CD players, but will be playable on any computer,
as well as downloadable to your portable MP3 player or iPod. Workbook is handy 5" x 8" size.


Lifetime of Loving CD Dr. Pat Allen's "A Lifetime of Love"

CD and Workbook Set. Ten 30-minute lessons on ten relationship topics on five audio CDs: Masculine and Feminine Energies • Sex and Commitment • Conflicts and Communication • Sex and Obsessions • Phases of a Relationship • Flirting to Attract • Ten Secrets of Getting and Keeping the Right Partner • Suddenly Single: Guidelines for Returning to the Dating Scene • Questions Most Often Asked by Men • Questions Most Often Asked by Women. This is Dr. Pat Allen's complete and original "The Secrets of Loving" Series.
   • Listen to excerpt....


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Art of Relationships Set Dr. Pat Allen's
"The Art of Relationships"

5-DVD Set. Dr. Pat Allen's complete seminar on how to maintain respectful and cherishing relationships, filmed before a live audience. Over 6 hours of insight, powerful communication techniques and her famous humor.

Disk 1. Introduction to the Art of Relationships (1 hr)
Disk 1. and special bonus Dream Analysis (26 mins)
Disk 2. Rational vs. Emotional Behavior (1 hr 23 mins)
Disk 3. Communications Skills, Part 1 (1 hr)
Disk 4. Communication Skills, Part 2 (1 hr 21 mins)
Disk 5. Setting Boundaries Verbally (1 hr 18 mins)

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HSP-DVD Highly Sensitive People (Dr. Pat's Androgynous "Alphas")

DVD. An Introduction to the Trait of High Sensitivity, a 65-minute presentation by Jim Hallowes delivered on Dr. Pat Allen's "The Art of Relationships" cruise to Alaska, includes an overview of the trait, some of the common characteristics of HSPs, a review of some famous people who exhibit these characteristics, along with tips and strategies and an HSP self-test. Dr. Pat Allen joins Jim for a special segment where she discusses her own experiences as a highly sensitive person, and offers an appreciation of Jim's work in addressing this area.

Be sure to visit Jim's highly successful website HighlySensitivePeople.com for the latest news on HSP, links to meet-up groups, and Jim's speaking schedule.


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Duty Dating DVD "Duty Dating"

DVD. A feature-length romantic comedy about a woman doing all the right things to marry the wrong man. Based on the teachings of nationally acclaimed author and lecturer Dr. Pat Allen, this hilarious film stars Lauren Sinclair ("Face Off") as a successful magazine stylist who botches every potential relationship without understanding why, until her BFF takes her to a famous love specialist who clues her in to the keys to a successful relationship. This heartwarming film dramatizes the do's and don'ts of dating for the modern woman in her quest to find true love.


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The Answers DVD Dr. Pat Allen and John Gray in the Award-Winning Documentary "Six (and a Half) Secrets of Love"

DVD. Dr. Pat Allen teams up with best-selling author John Gray (Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus) in a giant therapy session to explore the quintessential secrets of love...and it turns out there are exactly 6 (and a half)! Gray talks about how hormones affect relationships and Dr. Pat explains why hormones may make a man "pull back" from a woman he's becoming close to. In addition, this film (winner of the 2007 Best Documentary at the Hollywood DV Film Festival) by Emmy-winning journalist Barbara Schroeder offers a treasure trove of wisdom to help lovers navigate their journey, including interviews with one couple who have been together for 68 years, and another woman who didn't find love until age 81! (43 mins.)


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Pat Allen Promo DVD "Meet Dr. Pat Allen" Collection

DVD. Great for anyone who wants to see samples of Pat's style of teaching, "Meet Pat Allen, Ph.D., Best-Selling Author, Speaker, Psychotherapist, Communication and Relationship Expert" shows her in action in a variety of settings with clips from some of the TV programs that she's appeared on over the years, including the Oprah Winfrey show and CNN. Originally prepared for Speakers Bureaus and event and meeting planners, this is also a great way to introduce people to Dr. Pat Allen or to show to people who may be considering booking her for speaking engagements, workshops for their companies, groups or organizations. DVD also includes the 60-minute Keynote speech (audio only) "Being All You Can Be" delivered to the Annual WomanSage Conference.


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Conversational Rape Book Conversational Rape

Dr. Pat Allen's prescription for dealing with the people in your life and speaking with integrity. Learn how to ask for what you want and learn to say no to what you don't want without guilt. This is Dr. Pat's seminal work and the foundation of her proven communication technique of Androgynous Semantic Realignment and the foundation of her program of WANT® Training, her language-of-communication system that will help you become better skilled at loving yourself and others, making this a more caring world in which to live. Soft cover.       • Read excerpts....

You can also read or download the complete book FREE in PDF Document Format by visiting The WANT® Institute website.


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Getting To I Do Book Dr. Pat Allen's "Getting To 'I Do'"

• How to attract the right man
• When you should make the first move...and when you should not
• Why equality in a relationship may not be what you're looking for
• Why sex before commitment is a bad deal
• How to have sensational sex
• What makes a man run away from a relationship
• How to know when you're giving too much
• How to get what you want without asking
• What makes a man want to commit
How to BE ENGAGED TO THE RIGHT MAN WITHIN A YEAR!
Read excerpts....

STILL AVAILABLE IN HARDCOVER! The paperback edition of Dr. Pat Allen's groundbreaking book is now in an astonishing 34th printing! We still offer copies of the original hardcover. Her jam-packed seminars in Los Angeles have resulted in thousands of marriages. Now you too can take advantage of this proven step-by-step program to put your love-life on the right track to a satisfying love life.

    "Just what cupid ordered!" —Beverly Hills Today         "Move over, Dr. Ruth!" —Los Angeles Magazine

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Note: We're offering the original hardcover edition of this book by Dr. Pat Allen which is now out of print. The best-seller paperback edition is still available everywhere, and can be purchased from your local bookstore, or from this direct link to Amazon Books.


Staying Married and Loving It Book Dr. Pat Allen's "Staying Married and Loving It"

The key to long-lasting relationships is an understanding of sexual roles and marital problems. Following her landmark Getting to "I Do," Pat Allen, the "Love Doctor" to over five thousand happily married couples, shares her proven methods for making a marriage come alive with love, passion, intimacy, and openness defining common male personalities and interaction traits, and teaches women how to interact positively despite common barriers to communication and action. An involving, realistic psychological approach.

The hardcover edition of this book is extremely rare but can still be found with used book dealers and on this direct link to Amazon Books.


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Coming Soon! The Downloadable Dr. Pat Allen!

Pat Coming to Your iPod Dr. Pat Allen has been doing her regular Monday-night shows to packed houses for over 30 years at venues throughout Los Angeles (currently at the Odyssey Theatre in West L.A.), a get-together that Los Angeles Magazine has dubbed "Therapeutic Theater." Oprah Winfrey calls her a "Comic Mother Superior," and notables like comedian Yakov Smirnov even fly in to town Mondays for a chance to watch her help individuals with insightful one-on-one counseling before a live audience, and field no-holds-barred questions about love, sex, and personal and erotic relationships.

We've started recording these exciting 80-minute shows, in which Dr. Pat does a brief overview of her theories and then opens the floor to all comers, and soon they will be available as MP3 downloads! Each show treats the relationship questions and problems of three to five individuals or couples, and demonstrates first-hand how communications expert Dr. Pat's scientific principles can be applied to resolve troubling interpersonal issues.

Are you tired of relationships that simply do not work? He won't commit; she won't surrender? Listen to Dr. Pat explain how to get what you want out of life by learning how to ask for it. "The Love Doctor," live and in-person, tells you what you must do to find and keep the man or woman of your dreams.